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24 Black Tie Wedding Guest Dresses That Will Make You Feel Like “That Girl”   

Say yes to the dress: guest edition.

Headshot of Meg DonohueBy Meg Donohue
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I’m calling a time-out on wedding season—just for a moment while you read this. We’re still in the thick of it, folks. In fact, it’s only about halfway over if you consider the peak season to be May through October (which, I do). Weddings can be a real party, a total hoot. A saxophonist, open bar, and an excuse to play dress-up? Say no more. But when they dominate your social calendar, nuptials can become exhausting. You deserve a break from buttercream frosting and mini crab cakes. Unpack your weekender bag, unstrap your summer sandals, and take a breath.

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    Sweet & Strapless

    After Six Off-the-Shoulder Evening Gown

    $217 at Nordstrom
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    Show Me Your Mumu Jasmine Halter Maxi Dress

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    Hello Molly Ocean Odyssey Midi Dress Blue

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Feel better? Now that you’re recharged and ready to party once more, you can look ahead at the rest of the season with a renewed sense of excitement, and what better way to amplify that emotion than with a brand new frock? I don’t care what anyone says, fancy dresses have magical powers that make you feel good about yourself. (Fact.) But, on the flip side, picking a wedding guest dress can be stressful. There’s much to consider when picking an outfit, and the dress code is at the top of the list. Below, find some of the best dresses to wear for black-tie formal weddings.

Sweet & Strapless

After Six Off-the-Shoulder Evening Gown

Off-the-Shoulder Evening Gown
Sweet & Strapless

After Six Off-the-Shoulder Evening Gown

$217 at Nordstrom$210 at belk.com

Match the romantic vibes with an equally whimsical dress.

Sizes: 0-18

Colors: Midnight Navy, Tea Rose, Terracotta Copper, or Willow

Material: Polyester

Was this my Maid of Honor dress for my sister’s wedding? Yes. Will I take any and every opportunity to rewear it? Also yes. It’s backless and simply stunning. At under $200 and available in a variety of colors, I’d suggest snagging one and keeping it on retainer.

Sizes: XXS-XXL

Colors: 16 options

Material: Polyester

Flirty Ruffles

Windsor Brinley Formal One Shoulder Ruffle Dress

Brinley Formal One Shoulder Ruffle Dress
Flirty Ruffles

Windsor Brinley Formal One Shoulder Ruffle Dress

Waterfall ruffles à la Y2k are back in style. This affordable gown balances a timeless style with a touch of trendiness.

Sizes: Black

Colors: XS-L

Material: Polyester, spandex

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Straight Silhouette

Hello Molly Ocean Odyssey Midi Dress Blue

Ocean Odyssey Midi Dress Blue
Straight Silhouette

Hello Molly Ocean Odyssey Midi Dress Blue

Is it floral? Is it tie-dye? I can’t tell for sure, but I do know one thing—you’ll look great.

Sizes: Blue Multi

Colors: XS-XL

Material: Polyester

High Drama

Azazie Wow the Crowd Red Strapless Maxi Dress

Wow the Crowd Red Strapless Maxi Dress
High Drama

Azazie Wow the Crowd Red Strapless Maxi Dress

If you’re brave enough to wear red to a wedding, might I recommend this option? Feathers have been all over the runways as of late, so this affordable number is chic and on-trend.

Sizes: XS-M

Colors: Red

Material: Polyester

Flowing Floral

Reformation Jasen Dress

Jasen Dress
Flowing Floral

Reformation Jasen Dress

Just in case the bride forgot her “something blue.”

Sizes: 0-12

Colors: Missy, Riviera, Valeria

Material: Viscose

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Ruched Glitz

Mac Duggal Metallic Column Gown

Metallic Column Gown
Ruched Glitz

Mac Duggal Metallic Column Gown

This metallic dress has a beautiful sheen and the fabric moves like a dream—perfect for cutting up the dance floor.

Sizes: 0-14

Colors: Silver or Bronze

Material: Polyester

Va-Va-Voom

Norma Kamali Diana Gown Cocktail Dress

Diana Gown Cocktail Dress
Va-Va-Voom

Norma Kamali Diana Gown Cocktail Dress

Now 44% Off

Ideal for the wedding of a frenemy or ex-lover, this gown is sultry in all the right ways. With eye-catching color options and an enviable cling, it’s one helluva reminder that you’re the one that got away.

Sizes: 22 options

Colors: XXS-XL

Material: Polyester, nylon, spandex

Silky Soft

Alex Perry Strapless Gathered Gown

Strapless Gathered Gown
Silky Soft

Alex Perry Strapless Gathered Gown

In the spirit of full disclosure, I’m just really obsessed with, well, everything from Alex Perry. How could you not be?

Sizes: XXXS-XXL

Colors: Blue

Material: Polyester, triacetate

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Big Bow

Atsu Bow Dress

Bow Dress
Big Bow

Atsu Bow Dress

If you’re the stylish friend, you simply can’t disappoint on the big day. Opt for a gown that’s both on-trend and unexpected like this voluminous number from Atsu.

Sizes: Orange, Green, Lilac, or Gold

Colors: XXS-XL

Material: Polyester

Bold & Strapless

Solace London Zora Maxi Dress

Zora Maxi Dress
Bold & Strapless

Solace London Zora Maxi Dress

Simple and understated—what more could you want? Plus, you know this kiwi hue will look great with sun-kissed skin this summer.

Sizes: 0-10

Colors: Apple Green

Material: Polyester, elastane

Feminine Cowl

Nana Jacqueline Caroline Dress

Caroline Dress
Feminine Cowl

Nana Jacqueline Caroline Dress

Florals to rival the bride’s bouquet.

Sizes: Floral or Green

Colors: XS-XL

Material: Polyester, spandex

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Structured Corset

Showpo Adrie Strapless Corset Bodice Maxi Dress

Adrie Strapless Corset Bodice Maxi Dress
Structured Corset

Showpo Adrie Strapless Corset Bodice Maxi Dress

Corseting is everywhere right now, and I love it. Structured and sexy, this metallic gown has a boned bodice and a thigh-high slit up the middle.

Sizes: 0-16

Colors: Gunmetal, Turquoise, Pink, or Gold

Material: Polyester, elastane

Under $100

ASOS Sheer Ruffle Shoulder Asymmetric Hem Maxi Dress

Sheer Ruffle Shoulder Asymmetric Hem Maxi Dress
Under $100

ASOS Sheer Ruffle Shoulder Asymmetric Hem Maxi Dress

A flouncy ruffled gown with more tiers than the wedding cake.

Sizes: 0-14

Colors: Peach

Material: Polyester

Amazon Pick

MUXXN Sheath Formal Dress

Sheath Formal Dress
Amazon Pick

MUXXN Sheath Formal Dress

Now 18% Off

Hosting a wedding is expensive, but so is attending one! From the dress to transportation and accommodations, a wedding present, and a shower present...save where you can.

Sizes: S-XXL

Colors: 11 options

Material: Polyester, spandex

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Picture Perfect

Meshki Claire Satin Drape Back Maxi Dress with Split

Claire Satin Drape Back Maxi Dress with Split
Picture Perfect

Meshki Claire Satin Drape Back Maxi Dress with Split

Now 11% Off

May the bar be as open as the back of your dress.

Sizes: XXS-XXXL

Colors: Green, Black, Red, or Pink

Material: Viscose, rayon, polyester, elastane

Deep V

Lulus I’m All Yours Burgundy Ruffled Maxi Dress

I’m All Yours Burgundy Ruffled Maxi Dress
Deep V

Lulus I’m All Yours Burgundy Ruffled Maxi Dress

This dress might be under $80, but you’ll feel like a million bucks.

Sizes: XXS-XL

Colors: 7 options

Material: Polyester, spandex

Sequined Shine

Mac Duggal Embellished Floral Sweetheart Spaghetti Gown

Embellished Floral Sweetheart Spaghetti Gown
Sequined Shine

Mac Duggal Embellished Floral Sweetheart Spaghetti Gown

Now 65% Off

Flowers, cut-outs, and sequins will have you ready to say “I do...look good.”

Sizes: 0-14

Colors: Pink

Material: Polyester

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High Coverage

Rickie Freeman for Teri Jon Puff-Sleeve Two-Tone Tafetta Shirt Gown

Puff-Sleeve Two-Tone Tafetta Shirt Gown
High Coverage

Rickie Freeman for Teri Jon Puff-Sleeve Two-Tone Tafetta Shirt Gown

You can never go wrong with black and white. Never.

Sizes: 2-18

Colors: Black & White

Material: Polyester

Short Sleeves

Staud Calluna Dress

Calluna Dress
Short Sleeves

Staud Calluna Dress

It’s practically two dresses in one!

Sizes: XS-XL

Colors: 7 options

Material: Polyester, cotton

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Meg Donohue
Associate Fashion Commerce Editor

Meg is the Associate Fashion Commerce Editor at ELLE.com where she researches trends, tests products, and looks for answers to all your burning questions. She also co-writes a monthly column, Same Same But Different. Meg has previously written for Cosmopolitan and Town & Country. Her passions include travel, buffalo sauce, and sustainability. She will never stop hoping for a One Direction reunion tour.

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